India: Shanti

I have done a fair amount of traveling in my young adult life and almost everywhere I go, I experience some form of hassle and harassment. It happens in Europe where my skin tone blends better with the locals, but it tends to happen more in countries where I am obviously a foreigner. I don't blame these people who can instantly tell that my wealth vastly exceeds their own for asking/pressing/begging me to share it with them in exchange for whatever goods or services they offer, often at grossly inflated prices, and I was prepared for this in India, but…

India: Class

India is a land of extreme wealth and abject poverty. On a global scale, the richest and the poorest coexist and the contrast is stunning. We wanted to experience all aspects of the country and as middle-class American tourists, we have felt very rich at times and out of our league in others. We flew from Mumbai to Cochin in Kerala where we had made a reservation at a super deluxe Taj resort that had been recommended for its superior class and service. While the price was cheap by Western hotel standards, it blew up our budget quickly. When we…

India: Welcome

India. It has been calling me ever since I realized how vital world travel is to my life; it always seemed like the sort of place that would saturate my senses and bring me closer to the ultimate truth of reality I seek in my life. I crave answers to the Big Why of existence and while a one month tour of the Sub-continent could never possibly fulfill me, it is always enlightening to experience an alternate reality to the one I am accustomed. Boarding a plane and disembarking on the other side of the world is simple and easy,…

Sydling St. Nicholas

This past week has been ultra-relaxing. We have been staying with Alaina's grandparents in this quaint village in Dorset, England. Surrounded by rolling hills and organic farms, it is deeply inspiring in its beauty and G and Grand represent the idyllic environment perfectly. Their relationship is a model of everlasting love and I hope that one day we can demonstrate this virtue to our own grandchildren.

Summer Travels 2011

In a few hours, we bid adieu to Brooklyn and embark on a transcontinental adventure. Our first stop is Sydling St. Nicholas, Dorset, England to spend a week with G and Grand Buckland and the English side of Alaina's family. From there, we continue around the globe to India, where we will travel with Sarah and Eric for four weeks, exploring Kerala and the South first, followed by a trip to the North into the mountains. I have a basic sense of what we will be doing, but almost no idea what sort of experiences await. That is adventure! Unexpected…

Weddings

What a wonderful reason to bring your friends together and have a party: for we are in love forever! Folks will travel great distances to be present for this official declaration and the ensuing celebration can be a transcendent joy. This past weekend featured an unfortunate conflict of lovefests: Dan & Tekela in Wisconsin or Dave & Kelly in Warwick (great place to get married!). Lake Geneva, WI was filled with boats, beaches, beer, blunts and buddies and we gorged ourselves on Chef Daniel's amazing appetizers, complemented by cheese and fried everything. And while we were forced to choose between…

Book of Mormon

I love a spectacle and Book of Mormon delivers. Broadway is all about over-the-top song and dance and this show pays homage to the medium while simultaneously mocking its culture. The ridiculousness of of our obsession with entertainment is one micro-target of this show, and Broadway/Orlando worship is akin to religious worship here, with Mormonism serving as the kebab of this perfectly executed skewering. In a way, bashing this religion is too easy; it seems obvious that it was completely invented by a mortal man with a keen sense of drama who hooked his followers with a tale that makes…

Land 11

Since before I knew her and before her parents knew, Alaina has been hosting parties in Warwick, NY. Six years ago, we were married on that property and The Land Party is one of my biggest annual highlights. It is a chance to relax and party with friends and family in a beautiful setting with woods and a pond. We camp, cook out and play music deep into the night. It provides a sense of freedom that I rarely have in my life and I take full advantage. This year's party was a three-day extravaganza over July 4 weekend and…

Shakespeare In The Park

The man could write. His works are still the standard by which all theatre is judged. Every play is epic; a dense thicket involving love, betrayal, violence and wisdom. The characters are the grandest ideals or darkest corners of our own psyche and play out macrocosms of the subtle moral conflicts we engage daily. Every word he writes carries ten more words' worth of meaning and twist the plot dizzyingly. It is great literature and scintillating theatre. Alaina is hooked up at Central Park's Delacourt Theatre, which means we don't have to queue up beforehand for the always free tickets.…